Expectations of a Femdom

Hello, little deviants!

On this week’s episode of Kink and Coffee we started right off the bat with :

what we expect of our submissives and play pets

We are not the type of mistresses that hide what our expectations are, we don’t conform to what your perceived notions of us are – we are elite dommes, we are intelligent femdoms and often times we march to the beat of our own drum. There are times that we can come off as entitled bitches and that is simply because we are entitled. We know what we offer, and we know what we bring to the table. All of our devotee’s adore us…and if you become a devotee…you would too.

When you are looking for a mistress there are things to do and things NOT to do. You can apply the majority to mistresses everywhere

1. Don’t contact a Findom or any Femdom that charges for her time, if you are looking for free play. Any top notch, elite dom will let you know right away that she charges, it is not a scam because it is not a hidden intention. Dr. Kiera and myself, Mistress Lillith charge for our time. We don’t offer freebie play for anyone. Our adult podcast is free, our blogs are free to read – those are your freebies. Don’t ask for anything else
2. When sending an email, don’t send a novella. Don’t make it long and detailed. Don’t send it without some sort of a tribute for the time of the Mistress. Some us like to go with the flow. Your favorite domme duo hates going off of scripts too. It is robotic and kind of unnatural. There may be some mistresses out there that don’t mind…but for us, we do mind. We’ll pass.
3. Understand that there are times we won’t click do to personalities and it is ok.
4. Do a bit of homework on your prospective mistress. Knowing what she is like, what she is into will help
5. If you are looking for free, you can go to fetlife, but understand that giving a wishlist to a mistress is nothing more than self-serving and egotistical…just like with any relationship you have to prove that you are bringing something to the table…YOU have to be of real use to her.

Obviously the list can go on and on, and clearly, there will be different rules for different femdommes. BUT, this is a generalized list that you can certainly take to heart and apply when you are looking for a mistress.

Press “play” below to listen to the podcast, or download it directly from talkshoe: Intelligent Femdoms – Kink and Coffee

Next Episode of Kink and Coffee: When you tell a Mistress you will do ANYTHING. Will you? Will you REALLY do ANYTHING?